There are so many parallels between good food and good sex that it is hard to decide where to begin. If we take the time to slow down and appreciate and savor both of these delicacies the senses are awakened, aroused, and satisfied. If rushed, you miss the scent, taste, textures, sounds, flavors, feels, and blissful movement of each moment. A juicy tender piece of steak cooked and seared to perfection or ripe bursting flavor of a berry begging for you to feel the explosion of flavor on your tongue. It is no different than the want for physical closeness and the sensation of titillating excitement building.
Perhaps that is why food is presented in such a sexual manner in advertising. Sex sells and even if the food is mediocre at best, throwing a beautiful person in will make it more appealing.
Of course if you are lucky you can have good food and good sex. Followed by laughter, cuddles and the like. After all this is about creating a better sex life.
So think about enjoying sex the way you would savor a fine meal. Take your time. Be present in the moment and don't rush through just to get to dessert. Take each course slowly and purposefully and savor it. Make it memorable and be free to enjoy yourself!